Have you ever heard of the “you should just KNOW what I want” myth?
Death my Beloved – The Erotic Teachings of Loss
My greatest erotic teacher has been death, grief and suffering.
Through heartbreak and loss, I have found profound gateways to creative energy, deep longing and the bittersweet fusion of pleasure and pain.
These elements weave the foundational fabric of my erotic expression and fuel it flames.
Come Voyeur With Me…
I have been a complete voyeur lately. Indulging my deep desire to watch. To take in, from a short distance. To savour another human form. Piece, by luscious piece. I cast my eyes. Devouring a whole. It’s not news to me that I enjoy such delights. Truth is, I always...
Julie’s Journey: From Endurance to Skilful Sexual Communicator
Julie was an accomplished people pleaser.
She had spent much of her life appeasing others at home, work and in sex.
She was well practiced in tolerating and going along and through some work together was beginning to realise, how much she was trapped in a cycle of over giving.
Read how Julie learnt how to change these patterns and liberate herself sexually and in her life.
Taking in the Wild – A Journey of Co-Becoming
This beautiful practice was taught to me by Dr. Maya Ward and weaves together embodiment, trance, and deep listening into a “lively co-creative communing” with the more than human world. The practice was shared with Maya by the Gay’wu group of women from Arnhem Land and she teaches it now with their permission. Its expression is through writing and shared in community. To me this is an erotic practice. It allows us to connect deeply with our life force energy and merge with other living beings. It maybe the wind, land or sky. It may be food or trees. It really doesn’t matter. This practice also shows a way to deeply co-become with other humans in exploration and embodied pleasure.


