Is your attention span greater than a goldfish? And what this has to do with great sex…

Is your attention span greater than a goldfish? And what this has to do with great sex…

Have you ever had the experience of being in the presence of another human being, who deeply knows and cherishes their sexual self and is able to ‘sit back’ with it in their own body.

A person who can slow down and bring themself to the present moment with nowhere else to be.
Someone with whom you feel so comfortably seen without a word being spoken.
Whose touch feels so electric as they attune to the unique felt sense of you.

Chances are, if you have had this experience, it still lives in your body and memory, and you are feeling it right now as you read.

This is the essence of good sex. It is our ability to slow down and have a bandwidth to pay attention, that allows us to step out of life’s fast performance and agenda lane, and into the depth and beauty of now.

Eros is my Hearth

Eros is my Hearth

Life is meant to be a date with the Erotic.
A flow of aliveness and connection to vitality.
An expression of creativity and beauty.
Being in this moment, now and embracing the pleasure before us.
This is our essence.
Lost in the mind-field of life.
Trapped in the constant grid to be more, do more, have more.
We have lost our way.

A Personal Love Story

A Personal Love Story

Our love affairs are mostly with others.
They are often fuelled by passion, desire and intrigue.
We long to be together.
To explore, discover and embellish pleasure.
The chemistry of new love is compelling, and irresistibly intoxicating.
Many of us spend a life time trying to rekindle it or find it anew.
If we stay long enough in these love affairs, with intentionality and skill, we deepen, evolve and find erotic maturity.
It is rich and wonder-full.

Podcast

Podcast

Embrace: A Podcast for Survivors by Survivors about Sex and Intimacy For several years I was employed by the Brisbane Rape and Incest Survivors Support Centre(BRISSC) as a Sexual Assault Worker offering counselling, support and advocacy to survivors ofsexual violence....