“We cannot teach people anything; we can only help them discover it within themselves.” Galileo Galilei

Workshops and Events

Learning in a group or community of like-minded people offers a rich and wonderful opportunity to connect and explore together. My workshops and events are welcoming and facilitated spaces for people to learn new skills, share stories and experiences and to try out new things. Grounded firmly in authentic ongoing choice, participants notice and explore their edges, build trust, and find freedom and joy in allowing themselves to be seen and valued for who they are.


A fun and supportive space for all those seeking to learn new skills and deepen with other adventurers. Workshops range from opportunities to build foundational skills through to more advanced practices for solo explorers and couples. All those over 18 years, of any body type, identity, sexual preference and cultural background warmly welcomed.

Upcoming Events: 


Do you long for a safe and authentic community of like minded people where you can connect, play and explore?

Where performance is left at the door and you are supported into deep embodied presence and pleasure?

Where fun, laughter and learning are all rolled into one joyful erotic evening?

If you answered YES…then FEAST Play Parties are for you!

FEAST Play Parties are all about welcoming diversity, curiosity, clunky-ness and creating a compassionate, consent driven and inclusive space in which you can shed shame and find joyful expression of your authentic sexual self.

A place where you can explore your eroticism, practice luscious embodiment tools and play with other adventurous folk knowing that you are fully supported by skillful facilitators and a caring community.

Join us as we launch the first of many FEAST Play Parties in Brisbane on the 9th October 2021.

This event will be co-facilitated by Certified Somatic Sex Educators and FEAST Guardians, Jordan Hackett, Deej Juventin and Susan Stark.

Get your Tickets here!!






About the School of Erotic Empowerment

Susan is the Founding Director and Facilitator of the School of Erotic Empowerment. A supportive and welcoming community offering opportunities to learn,

express and explore within a container of integrity, playfulness and meaningful connection.

Current offerings within the School are for women and vulva owning folk only.

Stepping Stones thought the School of Erotic Empowerment

My programs are specifically and uniquely designed to resource and support people in a way that ensures long term sustainable change and empowerment. Each workshop builds on the next with ongoing coaching and support in between.  The reason I have structured programs is this way is because: 

– Meaningful change is best achieved with small progressive steps over time, within a community of like minded erotic explorers.

– Repetition and practice are key to creating new embodied pathways which become a permanent part of who we are.

– Deepening awareness and skills over time builds confidence and trust in ourselves.

– A community supports us with encouragement, love, nurturance and a valuable practice space, that transforms great ideas into real life experiences.

– We all share a need to belong and learn the foundations on which to endlessly grow in empowerment and pleasure.

– The exploration of eroticism is limitless with always more to discover, evolve and learn.

Investment in eroticism resonate into all that we are and do including intimate relationships, business, money, parenting, projects and health.

All programs include:

Monthly Online Group Coaching Calls

Membership to the Pleasure Posse

Crystal Yoni Egg and Instructions

Red Tent Dreaming eBook

31 Day Self Pleasure Challenge eBook

Home play workbooks

40% discount off 1:1 sessions


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If you want to learn about the School of Erotic Empowerment… come to my free half day or online workshop!


REWILDING PLEASURE – Claiming the freedom of Sensual Empowerment. This FREE half day or online workshop is the perfect place for curious people who are seeking ways to move out of feeling stuck, bored and shut down. 

This workshop is for every woman and vulva owning person, who has felt the impact of shame, fear and uncertainty around sex, intimacy and sensuality.
For every person who has struggled to love their body and embrace the fullness of their sensual self.
For every woman who is ready to say fuck it… it’s my time.
This introductory workshop will gift you the keys to igniting pleasure and liberating your juicy self. You will walk away with a tool kit on which to build confidence and feel vibrant, alive and start reclaiming sexy on your terms.


Packages within the School of Erotic Empowerment include:

SPARK – Three month package that includes Sacred Cycles, Simmer and three months of online group coaching. Perfect to upskill and get your Lusciousness on!

FLAME – Six month package that includes Sacred Cycles, Simmer, Transform and 6 months of online group coaching and more!!  This package is guaranteed to get you burning brightly and living your lusciousness in every moment.

IGNITE – Twelve month package that continues to build on FLAME with the opportunity to repeat all workshops and retreats as you receive further deepening, coaching and transformation practices, learning and community.   This package is life changing on every level. 

APPRENTICESHIPS – These are available by invitation only to those who have completed at least a FLAME package.   This is a three year program and allows successful graduates to teach within the School. 


Rewilding Pleasure

Rewilding Pleasure

Claiming the freedom of Sensual Empowerment A FREE introductory workshop for Women This workshop is for every woman who has ever felt like she is never enough. For every woman who has struggled to love her body and fully express her sensual self. For every woman who...

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Sacred Cycles (Full Day Workshop)

Sacred Cycles (Full Day Workshop)

For women seeking to reclaim, and embrace the sacred wisdom and power of our bodies, cycles and menopause as gateways to empowerment, insight and sensual pleasure. This full day workshop offers practical information, embodiment processes and ritual on which to begin...

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SIMMER-Two Day Workshop

SIMMER-Two Day Workshop

 Would you like to be having sex that feels fantastic and is deeply connecting? Would you like to feel confident, sexy and vibrantly alive in your body and life? Would you like to learn practical tools that increase libido, build strong intimate connection and sky...

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Transform  3 Night Residential Retreat

Transform 3 Night Residential Retreat

TRANSFORM is a full, loving, deep immersion into awareness, healing and claiming the true essence of our erotic and sexual selves. This retreat is a life changing experience for all those who long to live the fullness and abundance of their sensuality and pleasure...

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Join an authentic community of curious people where you can learn, share and expand your sexual self in a safe and facilitated environment. Erotic community is about welcoming diversity, curiosity, clunky-ness and creating a compassionate container where together we utilise a range of activities and collective practices. It is a positive and inclusive space that operates with integrity and mutual loving respect.



Women Living Lusciously – Private Facebook and Meetup Communities and Events

 Women Living Lusciously is an invitation to reclaim and celebrate the richness, beauty and magic of erotic embodiment and sensuality.   It is a space that supports vulva owning people to awaken and reclaim their juiciness, learn new skills and share our lusciousness in a community of like-minded folk.  It is an opportunity to move beyond the limitations of shame and taboo and to reignite the true essence of your own unique eroticism and self-love.  Together we explore topics of interest, laugh, share and connect.   We meet in person and online and share posts daily. 

 This group is inclusive of all those who own a vulva and are over 18 years of ago. 

 To join please visit:

 Women Living Lusciously Private Facebook Group –  Women Living Lusciously | Facebook

 Women Living Lusciously Meetup Group and Events – Women Living Lusciously (Brisbane) (Brisbane, Australia) | Meetup




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Frequently Asked Questions about workshops and events

Who are workshops and events for?

Workshops and events are for curious people over 18 years of age who have a genuine desire to learn and explore. All people of any gender, sexual orientation or genital configuration are warmly welcome.

Will there be the same number of men and women at the workshop or event?

I choose not to ‘gender balance’ workshops or events and invite participants to be open to having different experiences to what they might normally seek out. Workshops and events are a place to explore and learn outside of attraction and gently challenge the conditioning we are often raised with. You will always have the freedom to choose who you work with and how you work together.

Will there be food and drinks available?

It depends on the length of the workshop. This will be specified in information sent out to you prior to gathering. If you have particular dietary requirements, please let me know before the day of the event.

Are your workshops and events inclusive of everyone?

Absolutely. I am committed to creating safe and inclusive spaces where you are welcome to show up in the fullness of your authentic self. Please let me know if there are things that help you feel more included and welcomed. Diversity, variety, and respectful freedom of expression are cornerstones of my work.

Will there be nudity?

Many workshops and events I offer are clothing optional. You are welcome to wear as many or as few clothes as you feel to. Any variations of dress and undress are fine. What is more important is that you pause for a moment and notice for yourself how many pieces of clothing you would like to keep on or off and then do that.

Do you cater for differing levels of physical ability?

I do my best to ensure all activities are access to everyone regardless of physical abilities. Please feel free to let me know before a workshop or event, the best way I can support you in this regard.

Do I need a partner to come along?

No. Some workshops are specifically for couples, but most are not. You are welcome to come along on your own and team up with others for practices and activities at the event. There is also always the option to do any activities on your own.

What should I bring with me?

Generally, it is useful to bring a water bottle, a towel or sarong, and a cushion or yoga mat. I usually send out a list of things to bring prior to the workshop, but if in doubt these are the basics.

What are your standards regarding hygiene?

Regardless of recent experiences brought on by the global COVID-19 pandemic, I adhere to strict hygiene protocols in all workshops and events. Gloves, sanitiser, disinfectant sprays and individual bottles of oil are always available. In addition, I ask that participants who notice any signs of illness do not attend. I am happy to refund your payment in these circumstances.

This is my first time attending anything like this. Is it for me?

Pretty much everyone who has ever stepped foot inside a workshop or event of this nature has felt some sense of initial nervousness or fear (me included!). It is normal, even I would say healthy to feel this way. My events and workshops are created and facilitated in a way that gently supports you to go at your own pace with never an expectation to do anything you do not want to do. I am constantly humbled by the calibre and integrity of people who chose to come along and their capacity to trust, welcome and support each other in the space.

Do I have a choice about participating in the activities?

Yes, absolutely, always. One of the most important things in all my workshops and events is that you slow down, notice and choose from a place of authentic embodied consent. There are many ways to participate including sitting outside of the activity, watching with others permission, or taking a nap if you so choose. All these things count as participating. What is more important than doing everything is taking the time to notice what you really want and making that choice.