Sexual energy is healing energy.
Sexual energy is powerful, potent and magnetic.
It is creative and juicy.
Vibrant and sensual.
It a source deep within us that can invigorate, rejuvenate and manifest.
It is abundant and limitless.
It is free and connected with the most wonderous essence of life.
Its wild nature evokes expansiveness and deep connection.
Why then are many of us not connecting deeply with this incredible source within our own bodies?
When we live life from a place of orgasmic pleasure, everything becomes possible and hardships begin to transform.
We begin to show up in every aspect of our lives, energised, sure footed and powerful.
Sometimes I practice periods of abstinence when the only person I have sex with is myself.
I do it consciously, deliberately and purposefully.
I do it when I know I need to reconnect.
I need to nurture.
Spend time cultivating.
And re-membering the potent incredible abundance of my essential self.
During these times I self pleasure, I celebrate and embrace my body.
I make sensuality the foundation around which I create my day and embrace every invitation to feel its depths.
I wear clothes that caress my skin as I move.
I bath in beautiful oils.
I lie and breathe in the sun on my body.
I dance.
I sing.
I feel.
I am fully present to what is.
All the while cultivating the flames of sexual energy and allowing them to grow brighter, reach higher and burn deeper.
As they ignite I moved this energy through me, breathing it into every cell.
I give it purpose. Use it as fuel for my intentions.
I direct its healing to my organs, my pain, my heart.
I stay present with it, allowing it to choose. To be.
I store it, ready and waiting at my disposal.
I connect and feel where it lives within me.
What a powerful source.
From this place I emerge and pursue my projects, my work, my parenting, my life.
From here I connect with others.
And know that I can draw over and over from this insatiable well.
People come to me, troubled that they lack the skills they desire, the ability to orgasm or stay present during sex.
They come seeking something – what, they are not entirely sure.
Sometimes a quick fix.
Sometimes some new techniques.
Sometimes just someone to listen and understand.
Foundational to every one of their journeys is the capacity to connect with their sovereign sexual self, to spend time and be in the process of cultivating and embracing this essential part of who they are.
This is a new idea for many as we are not normally taught this part of us even exists, let alone how to connect and use it.
When we know ourselves intimately and how to tap into our magnetic source, we become the orgasmic potent beings that we are capable of being.
Life becomes juicier.
Love flows.
And pleasure is our ally in creation.
Don’t just take my word for it. Try and it and see.
My invitation – for one week, be your own best lover and see what shifts in your life.
