How dare you?
Is a question we are often asked.
Explicitly.
Implicitly.
Intended to challenge, shut down and put us in ‘our place’.
The purpose of which is to maintain power over another, keeping them small, manageable and most of all reminding
them of who’s in charge.
How dare you say that?
How dare you wear that?
How dare you believe that?
How dare you desire that?
How often was it said to you as a child or young person?
Maybe you have said the same thing to another.
I remember as an adolescent wearing a red mini skirt I loved.
I felt sensual and alive in it.
I also remember the shame I felt when an adult, admonished me and my clothing choice with the words….how dare you
go out of the house looking like that!
I felt guilty and the confidence in my budding sexuality was squashed.
How dare you, has come to me in many forms over the years as I choose paths of non-compliance and dare to truly
express who I am in the world.
I have often been admonished for being too out spoken and opinionated. Shamed for my choices and expression of my
sexual self.
Now however, I own How Dare You in a very different way.
It is now an invitation. A possibility. A challenge. 😊
How dare you today…?
Will you keep complying and staying stuck? Or will you take one small step towards liberating yourself?
Contact me for a free clarity and connection call and take your first step towards owning and honouring yourself.
