A lot of people struggle with orgasm.
Many wonder if they have ever experienced one at all.
Others express disappointment that what they have experienced – hasn’t felt like
much.
They often think they are the only one with this struggle or begin to wonder if there
is something wrong with their body.
They express despair, longing, boredom and so much frustration!
As a result, they become disinterested in sex and often withdraw from partners.
They believe sex is over rated and not worth the effort.
I mean, why bother with something that doesn’t feel that great…right?
I used to wonder some of these things myself.
I would find myself thinking…bloody hell is that all there is!
Or let’s just get this over and done with.
Sound familiar?
What I began to learn though is that orgasm is much more than a climax.
It is a way of living and being in the body.
It spans a spectrum from gentle subtleness to the peaks of intense ecstasy.
It is not something to go grasping for and often happens when we let go of agenda,
be present to sensation and focus on slowly building our arousal.
Having great information about our own arousal anatomy and not making
intercourse centre stage in sex also helps a lot.
Orgasmicity, in my opinion, is a wonderful way being and living.
And making life generally more connected to our vibrancy, creativity and aliveness is
key to becoming a more orgasmic human being.
When we are constantly tuned into what lights us up and turns us on, we begin to
live an orgasmic life, rather than live in constant pursuit of ‘an orgasm’.
It requires a change in mindset and different approach.
Many of us separate our sexual selves from our daily lives and how we show up in
the world.
We often see these aspects of ourselves as private and belonging only in the
bedroom.
However, the more we make life generally orgasmic, the more orgasmic we actually
become.
How do you invest in your vibrancy, vitality, creativity and aliveness?
Do you intend to live an orgasmic life or strive only for climax type orgasm?
Contact me now for a free half hour chat if you would like to discover an expansive
tool kit and begin living an orgasmic life.
