Mothers are the sexiest, juiciest, most orgasmic beings on this planet. They have the capacity to tap into and live their orgasmic potential like no other. They have access to the deepest most embodied wisdom possible and hold that within their very being in every moment of every day.
What do you think when I say that? What arises within you when you hear these words? I’ll admit….I’m biased and being a little provocative but there is purpose in my assertions. You see, as Mothers we live in a world that constantly tells us we are not sexy; not juicy; over the hill; dried up and essentially unattractive. Our bodies often wear the markings of pregnancy and birth. Our breasts maybe have changed shape and our bellies may be slack. Our hands and hearts are frequently full with giving to others, and thoughts of erotic passion are often crowded from our minds in exchange for a list of responsibilities.
But I am here to tell you that what our culture constantly espouses and would like us to believe….is all tripe. Utter, un-adulterated tripe. And the longer we continue to buy into that oppressive bullshit paradigm, the longer we sustain and rip ourselves off. At the end of the day, it is our choice and whilst it takes courage, is well worth the effort.
Some of the most orgasmic, abundantly passionate people I know are Mothers. They embrace their bodies and sensual selves and from this place come into the fullness of mothering and who they truly are. Birth has been their teacher, motherhood their guide. They draw from a source deep within themselves of a Knowing so trustworthy and understood, no words do it justice. It is their core, their life force, their passion and juiciness….and it is unshakeable.
My first truly and most fully embodied experience came with the birth of my first child. He is now 15 and still my body remembers every moment of his birth. I cry even now, in gratitude for I was held safely and so supported by people who trusted birth and my body and from that place I grew as a woman, mother and sexual being. Each birth deepen me further. I learnt the true meaning of surrender. Not from my head but from every cell in my being. I learnt how to trust, to open and to allow. I learnt the infinite power and wisdom of my body and the pathways to experiencing the deepest most transformative parts of myself. Each birth, each baby, a different learning and new pathways. I learnt how to move….some babies I danced earth side, others I was very still. Some rocked my body like I have never experienced before and others gently found their own way.
I found voice, sound and song. I learnt that opening my throat, opened me deeply and wholly. I learnt how to ask for what I needed and what I didn’t. I learnt deep focused presence and how to completely ground myself in this place. I felt all my senses awaken, come alive….feeding the vigilance and vitality of life. I learnt how to receive what was rightfully mine. To claim my place and power.
For me these are the elements, the essentials of being an orgasmic being. They are the cornerstones and once truly embodied never leave. Their imprinting is so profound and forever that they become an unquestionable felt source of deep wisdom and orgasmic potential.
However birth comes to you, the invitation is there. However it arises we have the opportunity to expand ourselves and breathe life into new and profound embodied wisdom. So Mothers, next time you hit those walls or messages that question your sexual and sensual self, I invite you to stop, take a moment, recognise them for the untruths that they are and begin to feel for the birth/s that have come to meet you. Allow your body to remember, to embrace and from this place move forward.
