by Susan Stark | Sep 21, 2021 | Somatic Sex & Intimacy
You cannot think your way into good sex. Having good information and knowledge is important, but we need to connect and be present to our bodies to fully embody pleasure. Yet most of us are so caught up in our thoughts – trying please others and performing,...
by Susan Stark | Sep 14, 2021 | Somatic Sex & Intimacy
Did you know that I am yet to meet a person who has not felt nervous when stepping into a session or workshop on sex and pleasure? Yep, it’s true. Not a single person. Me included. I still do. And I have had years of practice! Yes, believe it not I still get...
by Susan Stark | Sep 14, 2021 | Somatic Sex & Intimacy
How dare you? Is a question we are often asked. Explicitly. Implicitly. Intended to challenge, shut down and put us in ‘our place’. The purpose of which is to maintain power over another, keeping them small, manageable and most of all reminding them of who’s in...
by Susan Stark | Aug 27, 2021 | Somatic Sex & Intimacy
Life has a tendency at times, to squeeze every ounce of sexy, completely out of us! Stress, uncertainty, constant demands and tiredness are all great contributors. Not to mention the challenge of our aging bodies and changing hormones. It can be hugely challenging...
by Susan Stark | Aug 11, 2021 | Somatic Sex & Intimacy
So….what actually is Sexological Bodywork and Sex Coaching? This is one of the most common questions I get asked when people are considering working with me. I love it because it’s a great question and let’s face it….it can sound like a pretty wacky thing to do! It...
by Susan Stark | Aug 10, 2021 | Somatic Sex & Intimacy
Everyone benefits from sex coaching because it resonates into all that you feel, express and do! I was recently asked by the B105 morning show to record a live session with Cam and Frankie as part of their journey to Save My Marriage. After my initial uncertainty...
I touch scars. Some are physical. Some emotional. All are both. And more. Some are on the bodies of others. Some are my own. I do this personally and professionally. Hands on skin and hearts. Feeling and finding the way.
My greatest erotic teacher has been death, grief and suffering. Through heartbreak and loss, I have found profound gateways to creative energy, deep longing and the bittersweet fusion of pleasure and pain. These elements weave the foundational fabric of my erotic expression and fuel it flames.