by Susan Stark | Mar 2, 2022 | Somatic Sex & Intimacy
Truth is a “spot” doesn’t really exist.It is more like a zone and is really not a separate, stand-alone part of our anatomy.The urethral sponge is located on the roof or upper side of the vaginal canal and its size andshape is as unique as the people who own one.For...
by Susan Stark | Feb 17, 2022 | Somatic Sex & Intimacy
“In order to grow, we need to find our Yes.Yes, to the challenge.Yes, to the discomfort.Yes, to the uncertainty.Great liberation comes in saying Yes to the things that scare us.”I wrote this 12 months ago as I took a big leap.A leap that I had avoided and distracted...
by Susan Stark | Feb 3, 2022 | Somatic Sex & Intimacy
When was the last time you fully took in the scent of your lover?Not the sanitised artificial scent of perfume or powders.But their own wonderful juicy smell.When was the last time you paused and noticed, absorbing and savouring the eroticlayers of your beloved’s skin...
by Susan Stark | Jan 14, 2022 | Somatic Sex & Intimacy
The beginning of a new calendar year often invites us into reflection and intention setting.Many of us pause to notice and acknowledge, what is no longer working in our lives and howwe would like things to be.We set goals.Have great ideas.And give ourselves deadlines...
by Susan Stark | Nov 23, 2021 | Somatic Sex & Intimacy
Do you orient to abundance or scarcity in your life? When offered something of value do you recoil with suspicious or welcome it in? Do you question and shut off or open to the gift? Take minute and think about it. How skilled are you at receiving the gifts that are...
by Susan Stark | Nov 10, 2021 | Somatic Sex & Intimacy
“Most people in the western world have two or three relationships in their lifetime. Some people have all those relationships with the same person.” Ester Perel. Long-term relating is a journey.There are many twists and turns along the way.As we get older, we often...
My greatest erotic teacher has been death, grief and suffering. Through heartbreak and loss, I have found profound gateways to creative energy, deep longing and the bittersweet fusion of pleasure and pain. These elements weave the foundational fabric of my erotic expression and fuel it flames.
Julie was an accomplished people pleaser. She had spent much of her life appeasing others at home, work and in sex. She was well practiced in tolerating and going along and through some work together was beginning to realise, how much she was trapped in a cycle of over giving. Read how Julie learnt how to change these patterns and liberate herself sexually and in her life.