by Susan Stark | Nov 30, 2022 | Somatic Sex & Intimacy
One of the most challenging and common things I notice in my own relating and that of the people I work with, is how desire changes and often dissipates over time.
Most people in long-term relationships experience staleness and disconnect at some point in time.
It is almost inevitable and can make or break us.
Let me tell you how I have found my way back to the depths of desire in my 30 year relationship.
by Susan Stark | Aug 24, 2022 | Somatic Sex & Intimacy
May is Masturbation Month, believe it or not, and for many people across the globe, a time to invest in cultivating their sexual skills and erotic awareness through self-pleasure. Over the month of May I have been running my annual 31-day self-pleasure challenge with...
by Susan Stark | Apr 28, 2022 | Somatic Sex & Intimacy, Uncategorized
Our sexuality is an essential part of our wellbeing, creativity and vitality.I believe it is the most beautiful and wonder-full part of our humanness.Individually and together.Sadly however, for many this aliveness is not available to the fullness of its potential due...
by Susan Stark | Apr 13, 2022 | Somatic Sex & Intimacy
One of the most prolific and profoundly disturbing problems of our times, is the sexualviolation of others boundaries, trust and bodies.Sadly, many people take what they want from another human beings without consent orconcern.Our world fosters an entitled belief...
by Susan Stark | Mar 14, 2022 | Somatic Sex & Intimacy
I was wilful child.My noncompliance, later grew into adolescent rebellion.Somehow, I was born knowing I did not want to be a good girl.And consequently, found myself on the receiving end of much shame and attempts to contain me.Like many women, I have been judged,...
by Susan Stark | Mar 3, 2022 | Somatic Sex & Intimacy
What do you do when you cup is running dry? When life just feels too much and you can’t absorb the next dam thing. When the unrelenting storms of life pummel you again and you are stretched beyond your limits? Never before have I felt such collective despair and...