I have lost count of the number of articles, podcasts and books I have seen offering guaranteed pathways to mind blowing orgasm. Bigger, better, stronger, more expansive, deeper. They postulate a step by step approach to the ultimate. Or do they? What happens when we...

Mention anal pleasure and invariably you will find yourself confronted with a monologue of shame, taboo and fear. Whilst many us might harbour a healthy curiosity around our sacred sphincters, very few are recipients of good quality education and opportunities to...

Winter is here!  Time to pull out our knitting needles and wool and begin to create! But before you decide that I am heading down some kinky tangent, think again.   This is a sharing in creating erotic charge and how the fundamentals of knitting have a whole lot to...

There is something about Summer that invites me to celebrate and enjoy my body more than any other time of the year.  In the heat, clothing is minimal and freedom delights in feeling the sun and humidity of my skin. Holidays creates the time to slow down, savour and...